Now, we want to identify sneaky ways we cloak or hide our "need to be right." This could be tricky because it's like playing hide-and-go-seek with ourselves!
What a great title for a book! "Hide-And-Go-Seek With Ourselves" 2010 Copyright!
Take a breath! Wow—you did it—very cool, brothers and sisters!
Now, invite your Divinity to offer you an insight or use your pendulum to discern what is the reason you feel that "need to be right."
It could be more than one reason. Please list them. Keep drilling down to the core reason, the core FOUNDATIONAL THOUGHT. Know with total certainty there is a reason.
Let's expand on this "insight search" for a reason and explore why you have the need to be right with your partner or family member. (of course this is "sometimes").
If it doesn't flow up--you could always ask them!
Please report it.
PS. If you asked them--you are deep on the warrior path!
Use your personal clearing prayers or tools to clear all these ego-bursts, this "need to be right" once and for all ever! And the reasons behind them--don't forget this!
Explore one major moment in your life where you got stuck in the "need to be right" with someone—parent, partner, sibling, friend.
Okay—now hang on!
Write or call them and apologize! If you're sitting there, saying, "No way! Can't do it! Can't open myself to that person! Greg, you don't know what they did!"--we are probably going in the right direction.
I have done this! I know: It's horrible--terrible--AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH--NO NO NO!
But when I did it--WOW! It was really freeing and helped that other person so much.
Parenting From The Heart By Jack
Pransky has my highest recommendation
Couples & Relationships 1 - Low Moods
The book I refer to is: "Somebody Should Have Told Us" by Jack Pransky. In my perspective, the definitive book on the principle of thought and innate wisdom.